Infusion !!!

In a relationship, it’s not about love, it’s not about gender, its all about who earns more between them. It defines the superiority in a relationship.So-called male domination is the one which makes a women compromise her dream with no choice. Mostly the male domination thoughts have been infused in men by women. All mothers, sisters & wives want their son, brother & husband to be the one who is responsible for their secured life and he has to earn more to prove that he is a Man. It’s all about earning respect in the so-called society. Even now, most of the modern age wives/girls want her husband/man to earn more than her, just to avoid the social stigma. This has to be changed. It will take a lot of efforts to see a change and surely it might take few generations.

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According to me, every mom, sister, and wife has a responsibility to not to infuse the hidden male domination thoughts to their son, brother, and husband. Instead, it is the responsibility of every dad, brother, and husband to infuse thoughts on her daughter, sister, and wife to think, dream and live free and independent. Though we can see a lot of changes in the young generation couples and parents, but still a long way to go.

Men not going to work is a social stigma and women going to work takes great responsibility and superior. This is the perception in most people’s mind. Why has this to be like this? In a relationship, it’s all about their decision to lead their life as they wanted to.

Work for survival, live to build a home and love & care for each other. Complement each other. Never take advantage of any decision. Domination starts when someone takes advantage of the situation. Women are not meant to be controlled or to be a sacrificing machine. In the same time, men are not meant to be superior ( physically/mentally ) and to be an earning machine.

Life will be so much beautiful when no domination thoughts are infused into the deeper minds.

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Again its August…!

As I always say August Month is always close to my heart…now one more crown has been added to it. My Wedding Day is the new one added to August specials. This years August is so special till now because, my darling wife took all the responsibilities of making it too special. Starting from 1st wedding anniversary day to my birthday she made it wonderful with small small surprises.

I usually love to give surprises to others and very rarely  get surprised. This young lady darling with me, took all the pride in surprising me often.

And she started writing a new blog http://padmamalinisoman.wordpress.com/ and i’m happy to see her writing online. She is a great artist, great lover of colors, great lover of kids, great lover of tiny things in this world…with all these things the blog will be interesting and eagerly waiting to see her write more. And about this space, i have plans to make it regular at-least this time I should make it. Lot of happenings, lot of perceptions, lot of learning, lot of mistakes, lot of listening, lot of movies, lots and lots to write and share.

Colors of Surprise

Colors of Surprise

“Life is so much beautiful with my darling wife and with all these little surprises.”

My heart is rent…!

“At work, you think of the children you have left at home. At home, you think of the work you’ve left unfinished. Such a struggle is unleashed within yourself. Your heart is rent.”

True words…! Past three years were too busy to go forward and take things ahead…! But looking back..makes me understand that I am going faraway from living my life…! But still things are in control…dying hard to manage things between personal & Official life…! Lets see….! 

Life is Beautiful as always! I have to look around to enjoy.

The Best Thing About You Is You!

This post is simply about a girl and I have a reason to write about her today. Few tiny things about her……

A girl who can live as herself always…!

A girl who celebrates her womanhood…!

A girl who wants to smile and keep everyone smiling all the time…!

A girl who wants to smile or laugh loud for no reason…!

A girl who cries instantly for no/tiny reasons…!

A girl who express herself in all possible ways…!

A girl who never interferes others way of doing thing…!

A girl who always gives respect to everything in this world…!

A girl who loves to be loved always…!

A girl longing for care and affection …!

A girl who loves kids to the core…!

A girl who is bold and intelligent enough to excel in her career…!

A girl who is very much innocent in her own ways…!

A girl who always wanted to be simple and take life simple….!

A girl who never wanted to be questioned more…!

A girl who is inspired by his dad throughout her life…!

A girl who is chosen by a right guy at the right time….!

A girl who is gonna live life to the fullest as she expected…!

This girl faced lots n lots of hiccups in her life’s journey….few due to the parenting mistakes and few by herself…! Might be life was  not as much smooth to her as she expected for all these years..! But I am sure her future is in safe hands…the guy who has chosen this girl will take care and spread happiness throughout her life.

And for a girl who deserves a lot….the guy with her will make the things happen to her as she expected.Making her happy is not onesided,,,in turn she will make everything happy around her..! Lucky Guy and Lucky Girl.

The right guy is none other than me …yeah IT’s ME :)….and the right girl is my friend, my fiance…my girl…it is Padma Malini. :). Happy to be with her….life has changed lot and keep changing a lot..! Thanks for my girl for making things happening around me…! You deserve a lot….and I will make things happen around you.

And the most beautiful thing is …Its her BIRTHDAY TODAY. (may 13th). Many more happy returns to my girl….! Happy for you…and happy life together….!  Happy B’day Padma….I LOVE YOU. Happy living together as always.

Its true that…“The Best Thing About You Is You! “

Simply life is beautiful …!

With the mid-week confusions in mind, along with the half productive day (yesterday), with tummy full of dinner @ home, Just started watching little perks of different movies in the computer, ended on watching two most beautiful movies ‘Letter to Julliet’& ‘Guzzarish’, unexpectedly ended with a night out day, after tat decided to go for a early morning walk to the nearby park on the clean , less traffic and non polluted road side, sitting (with no more energy to walk ) in the chairs inside the park by just feeling the chillness n cleanliness of the morning and decided to pen this experience on this lovely blog…. It’s again me who just feels tat life is more n more beautiful with all these things and happenings .

Walking is an experience….!

In these modern days I do not know how many still like or Love  to walk  ?? But I do. I love walking whenever I get some time. I like to walk always when I am in a sulky state, I always walked alone to decide on some complicated issues, I always preferred to walk to get out of the confusions or bad mood, I always loved to walk with friends with some healthy or silly conversations, I always felt tat its a Bliss walking with loved ones.We used to walk a lot during college days… I was lucky that I had few ppl who had the same happiness in walking.

As like talking I like walking too..!

As like watching experience , talking experience I have lot of walking experiences. But in the recent times I walked less with my close friends . I used to walk alone in tough times…but missed walking with friends…! After a loooong time two days back me and one of my close friend been for a walk in the streets near my residence. It was really good to feel the happiness after long time. We walked for more than twenty mins and felt really fresh and good. Thanks you buddy for making your time and enjoying the walk with me…!

Blessed is the person who forgets today’s happiness by today itself and ready to enjoy the happiness of the next day. For me its all about myself to make my day happier and make the moments happiest. And so I wanted to be. Life is soo much beautiful with the late night walks on the streets , accompanied by a good friend….wat else we need…Happy Walking.

Walking is an Experience…..Come lets WALK :)…!

Its time to celebrate :) :) :)…!

As expected its a Baby Girl for my Brother. Today evening (Oct 11th 2011) our family has been blessed with a Baby Girl. Really everyone is very happy and excited. As everyone expected its a baby girl. Oct 11 gonna be the biggest ever day in our family….first baby…that too a girl baby. 🙂

Starting to native in another two hours and very excited to see the lil n most luckiest princes in this universe. Really its like a celebration….! Our mom n dad will be more happy…! Best wishes to my brother and he is most luckiest to have the first baby and that too a girl baby. I always believe that nice ppl get nice things. Thanks for all the good n loving hearts for wishing good health for mom n child. Both mom n baby are in good health.

We all are BLESSED.